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Submitted by thekaycho

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Ok THIS.
I had a discussion with someone the other day about how miserable certain people are and how they are so depressed they don’t have a boyfriend and think they’re ugly etc etc.
If someone is reading this and it feels this is all too familiar, you need to listen to Rupaul.
I have a friend. Shes gorgeous. Blonde, thin, adventurous, good at everything. The type of girl you want to hate but you simply cant because shes just too nice. Trouble is she doesn’t feel that way about herself.
She “envies” my relationship and always asks me how she can have what I have. And its just what Rupaul is saying. I think as humans there is an instinct. An instinct hidden deep down within us that finds someone attractive based on the way they treat themselves. I cant tell you how often I have heard men say that they love a “confidant woman”. Being confidant means loving yourself. Loving yourself feels like wearing the best outfit in your closet, the sexiest lingerie you own, all the time. That human instinct I was talking about can feel it.And wants to be a part of it.
So its time to think ladies and gents. Do you remember the insecurities you had in highschool? and think about how juvenile they are now? its time to think about the insecurities you have at this time in your life and realize how juvenile THEY are. Stop worrying what other people think of you.
The greatest feeling I ever had was the day I said “fuck it”. I’m not sucking in anymore, I’m not paying attention to people and assuming they are staring at me negatively. Now when I catch someone look at me, i assume they like what I’m wearing or think I’m pretty or like my hair.
Chances are the people you think are judging you are really not paying that much attention to you at all. Try and remember that while your staring at them thinking that your judging them, they’re staring at you thinking your judging them.
So love yourself and the love with surround you.

It says “Life is like photography, We use negatives to develop” this is just the first sitting but I thought to show it :)
I got this tattoo because it is a saying I have been sticking by for a couple of years and it has been keeping me strong all the downs I have had. For the past couple of years I’ve been through a lot including the last couple of months and now I have something on that is a part of me and whenever I am down it is there to make me beleive I can pull through this. Our negatives in life are there to make us stronger.
WHO
ARE
YOU
GETTING
LOUD
WITH??













